All Things Hold Together

Bob has never been very good at getting me gifts. He’s not horrible; it’s just that he often waits until the last minute and settles for something so-so.

I have to admit, though, he has had a few successes throughout the years.

Back when we were dating, he once bought me a mug that I absolutely loved from a pottery store. And a necklace and earring set from this really funky jeweler. And for Christmas 2006, he bought me an iPod Shuffle. One of those cute clip-on ones, which I totally *heart*.

But his overall success rate left me with a low expectations. (You know, to avoid disappointment.)

Let’s face it, buying good gifts is a skill. And like any skill, if you really want to get better at it, and are willing to work at it, you will get better.

Well, he has been working at it. I gave him some tips about paying attention to the things I look at in stores and the things I talk about, then acting on that information at gift-buying time.

Today was my birthday and I told Bob that I did not want much because I need some new clothes and sneakers and I don’t want him to spend a lot of money on a present for me.

I admit, I was nervous. I cannot stand the idea of spending money on something we don’t need (or I don’t like). Plus, it’s nice to get a good gift. I’ll admit it.

But he knocked it out of the park.

First, he went to Costco and bought me a huge thing of Ferrero Rocher. Then, he took the boys to Michaels (craft store) where they picked out some pens from Martha Stewart’s craft line and something to make me (which I will post pics of tomorrow). Finally, he got me this.

I love Burt’s Bees lip shimmer. And now I have this cute case (with mirror) to keep in my purse. Is that not adorable?

What a great birthday! Gifts I loved in a price range I don’t feel bad about. And an awesome husband, who took the time to pay attention when I saw this in a store once and remembered to go back and get it for my birthday.

I am blessed.